Alright, you started a conversation with a woman. Keep it light and simple. Don’t echte country singles dating site beoordeling be too pushy and try to talk about neutral topics. VictoriyaClub (international dating site) did a research about the topics on the 1st date. And here is what you should start with:
Then, depending on her answers you can lead your conversation in any direction you feel more comfortable. For instance, if she stated she likes movies you can discuss actors, celebrities. And if she likes pets you can talk about cats or dogs, etc.
How to Ask a Girl Her Number?
Now, your conversation flows naturally and you feel connection. 5-10 years ago you would need to ask a girl her phone number. It used to be a complicated point. Some women don’t give a phone number. Now, it’s a very private thing.
But luckily in 2021 you have much more options. In order not to scare her away, just ask her: “Are you on Instagram?” or “Do you have a Facebook?” 99% of beautiful girls have some social media accounts. It’s much safer to go this way.
Also a wise move is to open a Facebook/Instagram on your phone and give it to her, saying: “I would love to follow your Facebook / Instagram. Could you type in your name?”
However, sometimes you really need to get her phone number. Don’t wait too long. Try to figure out what you can do together as friends and direct your conversation accordingly. For example, watch movie, go for a lunch, walk the dog together. When you feel you’ve reached a pretty high level of trust, go for it. Here are some good phrases:
“I would love to hear what you think about the new movie that was just released. Let’s exchange numbers so we could coordinate?”
Should You Ask Her for a Date?
Okay, you are having fun together. Your conversation is laid-back and pleasant. She reciprocates with you. Is it a good time to ask for a date?
The fact number one is that you are already on a date. You are spending time together on a beach talking, walking and possibly playing frisbee. What is it if not a real date?
Another fact is that you need to make an appointment without a specific date and place. Remember, you still can scare her away by being too pushy. Here are some good examples.
“Hey, I got an idea. You said you love fantasy movies. I think there is a good one being released next week. We should go watch it. What do you think?”
As you can see all examples are light and non-binding to anything. You don’t force her to think about her schedule, take obligations. And it doesn’t really sound like a date offer. There is no exact time, no place, etc.
Beach is the nice place to meet girls in 2021. Everything around helps you to achieve this. Although, to be 100% confident make sure to take everything that is useful by the sea, starting from cooler with water and ending with an umbrella. It may really help you.
Act decisively, and never be afraid of rejection. In most of the cases the rejection is not because of you. The girl may have a boyfriend or she may not want relations at all. So, cheer up and move forward. There are so many beautiful women waiting for a guy like you at the beach.
- She is observing around. It’s not a big secret that single girls are also looking for a couple. And when they actively look around examining guys, it means she’s definitely open for relations.
By the way if you indeed arrived to a foreight country, you can try to find someone via free dating sites .